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"i am the pebble and i am the driftwood.."
the waves of life have formed me
every facet of my life ..
every smooth and craggy surface..
is a reflection of the past..

"when ppl say they r 'self made' they r living a dangerous lie
..we r who we r not just because of ourselves..
but we r the amalgamation of our parents dreams..
our friends,relatives aspirations.
.the last inspiring movie..
the first inspiring book
.all have a part to play,in the person who we become..

i am still a sifting bowl..mixing ingredients to make the 'me'mixing the sweet and tangy ..with the bitter and sour..am constantly discovering myself..am constantly inventing myself..
sure i might be a cullinary disaster ..but in the end what matters is ..
that i am still ME!!

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