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life is a buffet...

Last week we were celebrating mom's birthday and went to the Taj lunch buffet..
our family is a family is a family of foodies..and i am quite proud of my eating skills..
a good buffet spread is the ultimate treat..
We reached Taj at 2;30 and as we took our place we were informed that the buffet is going to be for only another 30 min!!!! only till 3 pm !!
I went into panic nood..
sooo much food so lil time..
prawn cocktail,oyesters,crab meat on cucumber,10 types of cheese,20 types of cold meat..dimsums ,momos,mutton ribs,roast chicken,pizza,pasta,soup..
and another assorted table of main coarse which i never had time to see..
then there was the main attraction ..the dessert table..30 ,no kidding..30 or so types of cakes,mousse,scones..!!!
but so little time..
i went on the attack and kept filling plate after plate of food ...
fill fill keep..
what happened in the end was that i was too nervous to enjoy the buffet and had not done justice to all that i had taken..

my brothers opinion:this just proves that u cant work under pressure,he said smuggly.
my dad was deeply involved in getting the food on video,and thoroughly enjpying the freely flowing champagne..his advice-have a glass of wine..
mom very wisely told me-bui enjoy what u have already taken,just because there is soo much variety of food does not mean that u r expected to have all of it..a buffet offers u a wide variety,but u have to pick and choose..and enjoy yourself.

Later as i sat and analysed the lunch[i analyse everything in life] i thought:
life is a buffet ..with a much wider variety than even the taj buffet,the idea is not to be bogged down by it all
so many different proffesions,so many college courses,so many suitors,so many movies,so much studies..and this just the starters..i haven't even reached the main course..
and there is so little time...
life is all about the choices u make..
the choices u make ,will be important..
but the most important thing is to...


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